Number 35
Before I start the Number 35 story, I should tell you that I’m not a sports fan. I grew up in a female household, except for BigDaddy and he wasn’t big into sports. We didn’t grow up with that incessant drone of monotone announcers and crowd noise on holidays and weekends. My idea of sport was the occasional bike ride. But, that all changed when my two boys came along. I made an exception for baseball.
I think I’ve mentioned here before, that from a very early age, TheFirstChild would sit to watch those long baseball games on TV. He talked so much about baseball that he made TheManoftheHouse crazy. But not me, I was thrilled that my little guy was so passionate about something. I became the only one who would talk baseball with him. We cut our baseball teeth on the White Sox — he learned from them and then he taught me. For several years I even knew the all White Sox players, their positions and their usual batting order. And most importantly, I knew about The Big Hurt. Frank Thomas.
Frank played first base and designated hitter for the White Sox from 1990 to 2005 — TheFirstChild’s entire childhood. TheFirstChild idolized Big Frank – Frank was the topic of so many dinner-time conversations that he was practically a member of the family. So, in February, when Frank retired from baseball, TheFirstChild called.
Him: Mom. The White Sox are going to retire Frank Thomas’s number on August 29th and we have to go.
Me: We do?
Him: Yes! You and Me and The Big Hurt. Remember?
Be. Still. My. Heart. Of course. Of course I remembered and of course we must go. And Yesterday was the big day.
It was awesome. We had seats in the nosebleed section, but we were behind home plate, so we didn’t care. Many of Frank’s old teammates were in attendance. Big Frank was presented with a few mementos and then he spoke. Or sobbed rather, as he thanked all the people in his life that are so important to him.
I cried too. I don’t know what TheFirstChild was thinking but I was remembering all those baseball games during his childhood. All the times I was making dinner and heard “Mom! Frank hit a home run!” or “Mom! Get in here! You have to come and watch the re-play!” All the times I’d come home from work and listen to the play-by-play of an afternoon summer game that I had missed.
I remembered the little guy who would be so excited when the White Sox acquired an exciting new prospect. There’s nothing quite like seeing a 7-yr old boy jump out of his seat yelling “You can PutItOnThe boooaaarrrrrdddd – Yesssss!” And the little guy who was so sad when one of his favorite players had been traded. All the times I said “It’s only a game” to try and cheer him up after a particularly painful loss.
Frank Thomas, circa 1997 — Twins Stadium
I remembered the excitement of being at the ball park with my wide-eyed little boys, hanging out by the dugout or the team bus in hopes of getting an autographed baseball. And what an exciting moment it was to hear the euphoric college junior on the other end of the phone declare “Mom! The White Sox are going to the World Series!!!” He went to the first game of the 2005 world series all by himself because we couldn’t justify buying more than one ticket at the obscene ticket prices. But to send him was worth every penny. I was in England with MeMum and BigDaddy on the day of the big game and I remembered standing in an old red phone booth in the dark, late that night as he told me all about the big game. What a thrill!
The ballpark was jam-packed yesterday and the heat was intolerable. I heard comments like “I’ve been coming to these games for 30 years and I’ve never seen anything like it.” We waited in long lines and they ran out of parking spaces. Yesterday’s game was a mastercard commercial writer’s dream. Ticket Price. Frank Thomas Bobble Head dolls for the first 10,000 fans {score!}.
And memories. Priceless, lifetime memories. I often wonder if Big Frank has any idea how many little boys’ lives he affected. If he knows how much joy he provided to those who cheered him on as he broke hitting records and hit home runs. Thank You, Thank You Big Frank. From the bottom of my mother’s heart.
And thanks to my little boy. Who pinched that heart when he called up and invited his mom to the baseball game. I love, love, love you Sweetie.
XOXO,
Anna